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WEEKEND

2012-02-27T09:17:00.002-08:00

This weekend I...

+ Purchased new Wayfarers & a pretty pair of $200 shoes for $20.
+ Went to a George Harrison tribute show at Mercy Lounge. (happy bday, george!)
+ Slow danced at a karaoke bar to some terrible country music.
+ Ate my body weight in mexican food at Rose Pepper.
+ Watched Office Space, Take Shelter, & too many episodes of Teen Mom than I'm willing to admit.
+ Spent an afternoon with my bestie eating greek food & grocery shopping at Trader Joe's.
+ Napped alot.
+ Watched The Oscars with my family while eating ice cream sundaes.
+ Did alot of day dreaming. Future plans, present goals, etc.

Can't wait to do it all again next weekend!

VALENTINE'S DAY OF CHAMPS

2012-02-15T09:08:00.000-08:00

Happy (late) Valentine's Day, friends!

Mine was spent with my dear friend Shanda. We spent our evening at my house watching our faaavorite (sarcasm)(jk it is my favorite) documentary & torturing ourselves with sausage & soap flavored jelly beans. Sounds like a pathetic evening for two single 20-somethings, but we really enjoyed ourselves. :)

This week has unfolded to be a quiet one, which is just what I needed. I've managed to keep the house clean & get in a few workouts. It seems that productivity might be the cure for everything. I've really been staying on top of my to-do list lately & I've noticed a big change in my mood. I'm also more tired at night which is helping change my forever-challenging & near terrible sleep habits.

I've heard that one of the best things you can do for yourself to be productive & highly effective in your day is to simply GET OUT OF BED in the morning.

This is yet to be seen...

SPRING WISHLIST

2012-02-08T20:07:00.000-08:00

Spring always brings feelings of excitement & forward motion for me. The winters here are usually miserable being that it seems to rain every single day. This winter has been a little different but no less, I can still feel spring fever sneaking up.

As I've stated before, this year is all about being productive. In every area of life. This includes spending money more wisely & shopping smarter. I've become a complete list freak lately, making lists for absolutely everything. Lists of things I need for my bedroom, things I need to organize, places I want to see, people I need to talk to, etc etc etc. Lists helps me to stay focused especially in a shopping situation. Mindless shopping is the worst & what usually causes me to overspend & buy items that I usually only end up wearing once or twice.

This is my Spring Wardrobe Wishlist...

A strappy pair of ankle booties.

A pair of comfy, colorful khakis.

A pretty new blouse (or two...or seven)

An envelope clutch

A maxi skirt

What's on your wardrobe wishlist?

JUST DO IT ALREADY!

2012-02-04T10:09:00.000-08:00

(My Timex heart monitor that I L-O-V-E)

I've been making alot of little changes in my life recently. In hopes of keeping myself accountable for these, I wanted to blog about the one I'm most excited about. GETTING IN SHAPE!

2011 was dedicated to a year of being a better me. I took huge strides & was able to rid myself of alot of negativity and guilt that I had been carrying around for a long time. I spent most of the year focusing on my diet & learning as much as I could about my body & how I should be treating it. Although I had my moments, like when I ordered two dinner entrees while in Florida (hey, it was my birthday!), it was an overall success. I consistently worked out the entire year & maintained the 12 pounds I had managed to lose at the beginning of 2011. I experimented with diets & although it's not perfect, it's definitely getting better. How does one resist things like bacon or peanut butter cups, anyway? Still working on that.

With the momentum from my successes in 2011, I plan on pushing it hard in 2012. I've got a boxing trainer lined up, which I'll start working with in March. I'm hoping to not break my nose...or get a black eye...or have my arms fall off. So if none of those things happen, I plan on starting my personal training program sometime this summer/fall. It's expensive, so I don't want to make any promises to myself yet but I'm determined to get the ball rolling this year!

As for the present moment, things are starting off well. I did a total of 4 workouts this week which consisted of 155 minutes total & I burned 1,985 calories. That's an average of almost 13 calories per minute. Whew! I'm giving my muscles a break today, but will jump back into the workout game tomorrow.

What are you doing to improve your self in 2012?

A SPOONFUL OF SUGAR

2012-01-30T08:51:00.000-08:00

Let's be honest...

Girlfriends are the best friends.

(although I've got a few good men in my life, too...)
:)

MUSIC REVIEW : SHEEPDOGS

2012-01-25T08:35:00.000-08:00

Last night was spent with the lady friends at The Basement seeing Canadian rock n roll band, Sheepdogs. They're the first & only unsigned band to grace the cover of Rolling Stone. They've since been signed to Atlantic & Patrick Carney of the Black Keys will be producing their new album. The ladies & I decided they sound alot like the Allman Brothers (& sort of look like them too!).

My favorite song "I Don't Know" happens to be their most recent music video. Check it out below...

SOMETHING GOOD CAN WORK

2012-01-19T20:33:00.001-08:00

Rosemary Beach 2011

I spent the evening destressing from work by looking at photos from last year & reorganizing computer files. Boy oh boy, do I miss summer something fierce! Tennessee hasn't had much of a winter this year & it's not looking like it's ever really going to come. I'm over these mediocre temperatures & ready for spring.

Ready for some change in general. The only downside to the new year is that it comes in the middle of winter when you're feeling the least motivated. I swear I could sleep for 30 days & not feel an ounce of guilt. However, I make the decision to roll out of bed every morning & accomplish what I can. This week has been one of the more stressful ones - both good & bad. I'm thankful to have a job that I love, where I feel encouraged & appreciated. Working for a family owned Harley business is really a dream come true! Inventory week is a week straight from hell though no matter who you work for. I'll be a happy lady when Sunday evening arrives & I can wash my hands clean of this task...& drink a large margarita.

I'm also incredibly thankful for my three best gal pals. We enjoyed a home-cooked Mexican feast last night after work. I had every intention of snapping a few photos but all I got was a photo of some peppers.

Those are some pretty good looking peppers though, am I right!?

P.S. Thank you again to all who took the time to read my last entry concerning religion. I am still getting emails & facebook messages about it. I've been extremely surprised but very welcoming of all the challenging questions and opposing opinions. If you have any questions regarding my faith, lifestyle, or religious beliefs, please don't be afraid to contact me. I am an open book if asked nicely! :)

RELIGION > IGNORANCE

2012-01-12T22:12:00.000-08:00

Over the past few days, a video titled “Why I Hate Religion, but Love Jesus” has been circulating nearly every social media platform known to mankind. I saw it posted by many of my Christian friends who are in support of the video and what is being said in it. It took quite a few reposts to peak my interest, but once I watched, my jaw hit the floor.

I am 110% offended by this video. In my opinion, Jeffrey Bethke makes a mockery of the teachings of Jesus Christ, for I do not believe that you can claim to hate religion and love Jesus in the same breath without making a complete fool of yourself. Bethke had a point to get across, which I am aware of what that point was. I am here to say that he did not effectively communicate his opinion. He convoluted the English language, used a few pretty rhymes, & spewed hatred towards millions of people both past and present. Instead of taking these issues up with Christian leaders who are not effectively teaching the Christian faith, Bethke chose a path of self-righteousness that not only humiliates himself, but sends a message of ignorance and delusion.

First and foremost, let’s define religion. Religion is a set of beliefs concerning the cause, nature, and purpose of the universe. Religion is the body of persons adhering to a particular set of beliefs and practices. Religion is commitment or devotion to religious faith or observance.(Webster) Pick up a dictionary and you will discover that religion is a very large beast. Religion can have everything to do with God and nothing at all. This is not a contradictory statement. This is fact.

Religion is the basis of intellectual thought for many. It is the moment when one realizes that they are not alone in their spirituality. These individuals then institutionalize this idea and it becomes religion. Religion is an order. Religion has rules, constraints, laws, and practices. Religion is created by men who have the passion & the hunger for more answers, for a better way of life, for more community, more fellowship, more accountability. Religion encompasses billions of people, thousands of belief systems, hundreds of Gods. It defines, provides, and inspires.Can religion influence wars? Absolutely. Can religion be misconstrued into a radical form of itself and become harmful? Absolutely. I am not arguing that religion is 100% positive. Some religions are full of hate & can be harmful to its followers. However, religion is not the root of the world’s problems. Our problems stem from hatred, greed, selfishness, jealousy, miscommunication - HUMAN EMOTION.

Bethke states that Jesus came to abolish religion, which is not a factual statement. Quite the opposite, my friends. Jesus came to fulfill the Law & Prophets (Matthew 5:17), not abolish them. Christianity did not exist before Jesus. Man created Christianity, which by definition is a religion. Man created the bible, which is the basis of the Christian religion. Jesus' disciples educated and informed others on who Jesus Christ was, why he was here, & what he did for the world for the sake of breaking away from the Jewish tradition so they themselves could freely practice their religion. Jesus Christ was the foundation of this religion. Without these men institutionalizing this idea, that Jesus was the son of God, a divine man, who spoke of love & kindness, ultimately dying on the cross for our sins so we could lead better lives - if this very religion did not exist, Bethke would not know Jesus Christ.

If it weren’t for religion, Bethke would not know Jesus.

The video’s title should have been, “Why I hate the immoral and unethical decisions that some religious leaders are making but love Jesus” or “Why I hate the evolution of Christianity but love Jesus” or maybe, “Why I love my religion and hate yours”. The latter seems to be what he is trying to say.

Jesus’ entire reason for existence was to preach love. If more of us practiced what Jesus preached, we might all be in a better situation than we find ourselves in today. However, believing in Jesus, trusting in God, & studying the bible does not give you the right to judge others, especially others’ religion. Judgment harbors hatred, negativity, jealousy, & greed. Judgment is what abolishes respect for not only yourself, but your neighbor.

Maybe next time Jeffrey Bethke can make a video about how love & faith can positively affect people. Sure, it won’t be as controversial, but atleast it will be based on fact.

Furthermore, we all know that voting republican does not make you a Christian. Unfortunately, this man is unaware that believing that Jesus is the son of God, who died for your sins, but was resurrected from the dead to accept his followers into heaven does make you a Christian. Christianity is a monotheistic religion based around this entire principle. It really ends there.

Maybe someone should inform him of his religion.

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EDIT//Another great post written concerning the contradictions of Bethke's video. Please see here. It is truly a great read, and written by a Christian.

This message brought to you by an atheist (by definition) who will fight for religion & science until the end of time because yes, they both have a place in this world.

THIS IS THE NEW YEAR

2012-01-04T09:17:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year!

{dress - express, necklace - f21}

I cannot believe that 2012 is upon us. As a you can imagine, this is a great year for a conspiracy theory buff like myself. Although I don't really believe the Mayans were conspiring against us when they predicted that this may or may not be the end of the world as we know it, it's still all very interesting to me!

I'm not much into NY resolutions since I write my resolution list on my birthday every year. But I do hope to accomplish a few things in 2012 like get into tip-top shape & begin my journey into personal training. I also want to blog more, share more, create more, love more, & DO more.

2011 proved to be a very challenging & busy year for me however I don't really feel like I accomplished as much as I could have. I have a huge problem with productivity sometimes because of my general lack of energy that I've been plagued with my whole life. I think all my energy escapes my mouth since I talk so much. I'm feeling very inspired lately though & am excited to challenge myself to really...pardon my french...get shit done in 2012!

Here's to a new year & a new me & you!

A YEAR IN REVIEW : 2011

2011-12-29T09:00:00.000-08:00

My puppy, Macallen. My favorite part of 2011.

A Year In Review

In January, I spent the first day of the year recovering from a wonderful NYE; Celebrated Shanda's birthday at City House; I started dying my hair from home instead of in a salon, which I had been doing for almost 10 years; I was having a blast working at Francesca's; & the lady friends & I made a night of Adventure Science Center's Way Late Play Date.

In February, it snowed a little; I got stuck while driving in the snow for the first time ever (terrifying!); I planned a mini Valentine's Day party with my bests where we dined at J. Alexanders & saw Bieber's Never Say Never in a big theatre all by ourselves; I pondered moving to Texas; & I started working out alot.

In March, I discovered Two Door Cinema Club & purchased Adele's 21. Both albums spoke so much to my life. They remain two of my favorites; I dyed my hair dark again for the first time in a long time; I wrote a post about my tattoos which continues to be the most popular entry on here; I spent alot of evenings at JJ's Wine Bar; & I landed an unexpected interview with Harley-Davidson.

In April, I kissed my Frannies goodbye & started work at Harley-Davidson; My anxiety got the best of me & became a challenging focal point in my life; I had to say goodbye to my precious pup, Boston. He was such a light in my life; I read Ree Drummond's The Pioneer Woman & cried like a baby; & I road tripped to Cookeville with my bests to see my first step show. Yep.

In May, I saw my future husband, Tom Jones, in concert; I let go of alot of pain & grief that I had been holding onto for a long time; The ladies & I threw a surprise party for Lauren's boyfriend, David; I went on a mini tweeting hiatus & took part in a 30-day emotional detox; & I attended my first bike show.

In June, I attended a Willie Nelson concert that our shop sponsored; My social life kicked into high gear; I went on my first business trip to Atlanta; Tragic circumstances brought old friends back into my life; & I started goal writing again.

In July, I saw U2 in concert at Vanderbilt; Spent the 4th with my besties watching the fireworks downtown; Purchased my first pair of Wayfarers; Celebrated Lauren's birthday Italian style; Attended the Britney Spears & Nicki Minaj concert; I had big falling out with a boy; I discovered one of my new favorite movies, Harold & Maude; I signed on my house in Nashville & took the leap to live with my two best friends.

In August, I got promoted at work to my current position as general manager; Quickly moved into my new place & then went on vacation; I swam in the ocean for the first time; I purchased my first black (faux) leather jacket; & I had the most EPIC birthday party ever.

In September, I created my 23 Things list; I read Elizabeth Gilbert's Committed & it rocked my world; My parents welcomed a new puppy into the family; & I started drinking Green monsters.

In October, I saw Justin Bieber in the flesh; I celebrated the opening of my bestfriend's little sister's tattoo shop; I started caring about my wardrobe again; I visited a local farm & pumpkin patch; Had an epic Halloween where I dressed as Carol Ann from Poltergeist; & I began my leap into veganism.

In November, I started work on my dream bedroom; We threw a Bros & Hoes party for Kayla's birthday; I fell fast & hard for a dreamer; I celebrated Thanksgiving with family & friends; & I went to ALOT of shows.

In December, I saw my most favorite band, Hall & Oates, at The Ryman; I attended a Christmas party dressed as a Christmas tree; I got a new hairstyle a bit out of my comfort zone but that I'm totally in love with; I reconnected with more old friends; I had a beautiful Christmas with my family + Alexis; I attended even more shows; & I came to my senses.

All in all, I think it was a pretty fantastic, productive, inspiring year. It most certainly had its ups and way down lows, but I came out on top in the end, which I can't really say is true of every year.

I am very much looking forward to everything that 2012 has to offer. Bring on Armageddon!

Click here to read last year's Year In Review!

HAPPY FESTIVUS (TO THE REST OF US)

2011-12-28T11:33:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas! (Belated, of course)
or Happy Holidays!

Santa was very, very good to me this year. Bringing me a kindle, a membership to the Frist Museum, a shearling vest, & lots of Bieber gear (as pictured below). The weekend was spent at my parent's. I enjoyed a few days off & way too much holiday food & spirits. I can still feel remnants of a Christmas hangover.

I cannot believe that 2011 is coming to a close. I literally feel like I was ringing in the new year just a few short months ago. But here we are, nearly 12 months later. SO much has changed. I thought last year was my biggest year in personal growth, but this year proved me wrong. I am so excited for what 2012 holds. Hopefully not an apocalypse, but I could go for a few life changes. :)

I've got a recap of 2011 scheduled for tomorrow. Should be fun to look back.
Until then!

I N S T A G R A M S

2011-12-15T13:32:00.000-08:00

Lately...
(in instagrams)

1. New bunny case for my iphone! 2. Mexican feast with the lady friends. 3. Christmas decor at the house. 4. Bling stockings. 5. Spaghetti dinner with the roomies :) 6. Alexis & I out at Red Door. She's trying to steal my style...clearly...

See the rest here!

OH, CHRISTMAS TREE

2011-12-12T09:37:00.000-08:00

This past week was packed with social outings with all my besties. Tuesday was spent at the boys' house for their Christmas Sweater Party. In true Lindsey fashion, I dressed as a Christmas tree in a Betsey Johnson dress & Anthropologie sweater because let's face it...I don't own a tacky Christmas sweater & couldn't find the time to go purchase one.

The rest of the week was a blur. Too many shows and bars to name. My friend, Andy, and I did manage to see Hall & Oates at The Ryman thanks to an early Christmas gift from my parents. We had such a good time! I still can't believe I got to see them live. They've been my favorite band for so long. What a treat!

Tonight I'll be decorating the house for Christmas with my roomies. We've got a big dinner planned so we can all get caught up on each other's lives. It's funny living with two of your bestfriends and still rarely having time to actually see one another. Such is life! I'm just thankful to have them in my life. :)

Until next time!

MAN DOWN

2011-12-05T09:56:00.000-08:00

I don't even know.

Christmastime celebrations have started to creep into my weekly schedule. Nashville's annual Christmas Parade floated on by the Harley shop on Friday night. Baley & I closed up shop early to stand outside & watch. I must admit, it was pretty laughable. Especially when Rudolph fell & couldn't get up. Poor guy. I've got a Christmas party to attend tomorrow evening & not a single ugly sweater in my closet. Looks like I'll be on a little search after work...

This past weekend was filled with friends, but sadly no family time. After the parade, I headed to 5 Spot for the F*CK CANCER benefit hosted by a local band, The Future. These guys are seriously some of the most talented dudes I know. Their music is definitely worth a listen. On Saturday evening, I spent time with my old college bestie, Ms. Bright. I'm hoping we can squeeze in more time together because I sincerely miss her company. We always manage to have the best stories for one another though so that's kind of fun.

I then managed to buy out the Gap yesterday. Nearly everything was 50% off! Hopefully I'll be styling those pieces in the next week or two because I'm very excited about everything I got. I've got a busy few weeks ahead of me. A new work-out schedule & vegan meal plan to organize. I'm also planning a little trip for January. I'm going to do my best to document all of these changes for you & hopefully have alot more to share in 2012!

CHASING

2011-11-28T09:55:00.000-08:00

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Sometimes you meet someone that inspires you. Sometimes you meet someone that merely peaks your interest. Sometimes you meet someone that shakes you to your core. They evoke feelings inside of you that you have never felt before. That person changes you. Sometimes for a day but sometimes for forever. The only way to be sure is to chase that change. Chase those feelings. Follow them as high or as low as they'll take you. Guard your heart in the process but trust that the world is working in your favor because sometimes the world has no choice. Maybe you're at your all time low, you've lost everything you have to lose. Your faith is shaken and your hope is sparse.

Give trust a try.

& run...don't walk. Don't look back. Don't question your heart's motive or your intuition's ability.

Trust. Chase.

Twenty-Four

2011-11-22T19:54:00.001-08:00

My beautiful best friend, Kayla, turned 24 this past weekend. We celebrated with a night out to Virago for expensive sushi & wine. Then on Saturday, a Bros & Hoes themed party with tons of friends. The costumes were laughable & I think it might have been Kayla's best birthday yet!

Now I'm gearing up for Thanksgiving. My parents & I (yes, I plan on helping) will be making dinner for 11 of our friends. But first my dad & I will be waking up extra early to eat breakfast & watch the Macy's Parade together. My favorite holiday tradition. :) Can't wait! Hope everyone has a lovely day with friends or family!

November Daze

2011-11-17T09:15:00.000-08:00

{taken on my morning walk for coffee}

I swore to myself that I would attempt to enjoy November more than I got to enjoy October. Here we are over half way through the month and I'm left wondering where the days go? If only there were more than 24 hours in a day. What a treat that would be!

I've been getting alot of things done in the past week or two that I've been putting off for a long time, like trying new recipes from Oh She Glows, which has quickly become one of my favorite vegan blogs to follow. I made the black bean & butternut squash burritos for dinner the other night (srsly, the best thing I've ever put in my mouth) & today I'm munching on the brown rice & chickpea salad for lunch. The dressing is divine (& so simple!).

{brown rice & chickpea salad for dinner & lunch!}

I also installed all the shelving in my bedroom FINALLY! It's so nice to finally have a home for my books. I can tell they're happy about it as well. I've had this idea for years of having white walls, white shelves, & lots of green plants. That dream has finally come to light! I just have to get some window treatments up & then I'll post photos, but here's a little sneak peak...

I have a few other DIY projects that I'm wanting to do for my room before the end of the year. Once that's done, I'll do a little room tour. I wish I could give Pinterest a big high five because that website is truly godsend! It's helped me organize projects & so much more. My creativity has been on overload because of it. If you have an account, add me here.

I am very much looking forward to the weekend. BFF & roomie, Kayla, is turning 24 tomorrow! We're having a fancy dinner at Virago tomorrow night then having a big party on Saturday. That girl has been working so hard this past month. I can't wait to celebrate!

They're heeeere..!

2011-11-08T19:33:00.000-08:00

Where do I even begin...!? October flew by in the blink of an eye. It seems to do that every year. So on this day forward, I will now consider November to be my favorite month. Let's be honest, the weather is much better & jellooo? Do I even need to mention Thanksgiving?

Halloween was a hoot. I wore no less than three costumes that weekend. One which included my very favorite costume of all time. Carol Anne from Poltergeist. & yes, that would be Baley dressed up as a television. My television. "They're here!"

I have about 3,000 photos from that night but I won't torture you with the monotony of party pics. They're mostly just photos of me fist pumping my baby doll into the air. I was having a good time.

Clearly.

I am very much looking forward to this month. Lots of goals set for myself & Christmas is right around the corner! I spent the day decorating for Christmas at the shop today. See?

Can't wait!

p.s. I will try to be a better blogger from this day forward. Try.

My Vegan Journey : The Leap

2011-10-24T09:52:00.000-07:00

I thought I would share a bit of information concerning a recent journey I've been on. That is the journey into Veganism (queue Twilight Zone music).

Let's start from the beginning, shall we? I was raised in a very average American home. Middle America, middle class, nothing to see here. My parents raised my brother & I in the best way possible. My childhood was straight out of a sitcom. Food was probably the last thing on parents' minds in the 80's & 90's. My brother & I ate whatever we pleased. My parents made dinner every night which usually always consisted of some sort of meat, a carb, & lots of veggies. For whatever reason, my brother & I always loved vegetables. We never had to think twice about eating right. I doubt my parents ever thought twice about what went into the food we ate either. It just wasn't a concern at the time. Fast forward a bit...

Enter Food Inc, the documentary that blew the doors wide open on the industrial food industry. I had honestly never thought twice about what I ate until seeing this movie in 2010. It never occurred to me that such atrocities could be going on in the world behind closed doors. I left that movie theatre never wanting to eat again for fear of harming myself, the environment, & every other living creature involved. I knew I couldn't live on a diet of nothing so I began reading everything I could get my hands on concerning the food industry. I read every book written by Michael Pollan, Alicia Silverstone's The Kind Diet, and the Skinny Bitch series. All of these books center around the food industry's impact on the environment and focus alot on animal cruelty. This lead me (scared me) to go vegetarian for 90 days in 2010. I did this somewhat successfully but became completely overwhelmed with my life at the time & ended up throwing the whole idea to the birds.

About a year later I started researching again, this time with a strong desire to learn the health benefits of eating a meat free diet. I tried to avoid material that centered around the environment and/or the treatment of animals because those statistics are what I believe are the most daunting & heartbreaking. I quite simply just needed a break! I started with Kelly Freston's book, Veganist. This book changed my life. I strongly believe it is the best book to read if you are thinking about going vegetarian or vegan. It is written beautifully & strongly encourages one to lean into the vegan diet, rather than scaring yourself into quitting meat & dairy cold turkey. I read a few other books after this which lead me to watching the docu, Forks Over Knives. This documentary focused solely on the health benefits of a plant-based diet. Bingo. That's when this whole vegan diet idea clicked.

I still have alot of learning & research ahead of me until I can gracefully talk about this subject. These books & movies are packed with statistics, studies, & information that excite, confuse, terrify, & anger me. It's an emotional journey to say the least. I plan on turning My Vegan Journey into a series here on the blog so I can chronicle my path into veganism for my own sake & in hopes of informing & encouraging someone else. For now, I have adopted a vegan diet Monday-Friday. I try to be mindful on the weekend but allow myself meat & dairy. This is what is working for me right now but I do plan on going 100% vegan in the near future. I am also strongly considering going back to school for nutrition & exercise science to learn even more about how diet affects not only your health, but your environment.

In the next post, I'll be writing about these books & documentaries more in depth. Including the statistics that changed my life & the way I think about food & health. Your diet affects absolutely everything in & around you. The information is truly incredible and I can't wait to share more!

Happy Columbus Day!

2011-10-10T10:01:00.000-07:00

WHAT I WORE : GREEN ACRES

2011-10-03T09:00:00.000-07:00

shirt - old navy, jeans - f21, boots - steve madden (thrifted), fedora & necklace - francesca's (they're my most favorite pieces in my closet!)

Have I ever mentioned how excited I get when I get to spend time with my bff, Lauren? We actually live together but don't always spend alot of time together since we both have such ridiculously busy schedules. We've been bestfriends for almost 14 years. Fourteen years, people!

Today we (+ her boyfriend, David) spent time at Green Door Gourmet, which is located on a farm in West Nashville. Lauren has some lovely friends who work there. We went on a hayride. Fun was had.

I think a small farm might be in my five year plan. & babies. Does anyone else get mad baby fever around this time of year? Along with seasonal depression? It's an odd combination...

FALL FOLLIES

2011-10-02T11:16:00.000-07:00

I know this next statement isn't very bold or original but...

I am L-O-V-I-N-G this weather lately! & I am so happy that I've been able to really enjoy it. Fall has arrived & I have a sneaky feeling that winter is close behind, which makes me so happy! I've been wearing my leather jacket, a scarf & boots all weekend.

I spent yesterday at Centennial Park with friends at the Cultural Festival enjoying the pretty sunshine. That evening I went to my dear friend Alli's new tattoo studio in Downtown Franklin, Chrome Halo. The tattoo shop is unlike any other I've ever been to (or heard of!)! So many wonderful things will happen there & I could not be more proud of my girl. Alli is my bestfriend's little sister. It's been such a treat getting to watch her grow up & find her footing in the tattoo industry.

Yes. There was chocolate covered bacon.

Today will be spent with my bestie, Lauren. We are going to a farm that some of our friends work at for a Fall festival.

On another note. I went to the filming of Justin Bieber's new music video. I'm not even ashamed to admit it. I saw the Biebs in the flesh.

(my little cousin took this photo on her iphone. can you believe it!?)

womp womp

2011-09-26T20:32:00.000-07:00

Today was a no good, very bad day that left me feeling defeated & emotionally drained.

A good cry was in order.

After my good cry I picked myself up off the floor, made myself a Green Monster for dinner, & called it a day.

Tomorrow will be better.

Lean to

2011-09-24T20:22:00.000-07:00

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Happiness is a funny, fickle thing. I've been thinking alot about it lately. What brings me joy, what fills me up, what makes me smile, laugh, fist pump, etc.

I try to find joy in the smallest of things. I get giddy when my latte tastes perfect. I smile happily when the air is cool & crisp, but the sun is still shining. I like to look up at the sky & quietly whisper "more, more, more" when something exciting happens to me. It's my little way of giving thanks to the universe. & it is my belief that when you find true happiness in the small things, & take time to give thanks for all things, the true beauty of your life is revealed & great, big things start happening to you.

A few things that are making me happy lately...
+ Leaning into the vegan lifestyle. It's a lifestyle I want to embrace but not overdo. It's nice having that freedom to say "I eat a mostly vegan diet but I am not a vegan." The choice is mine. Who needs labels anyway?
+ Growing friendships. It's amazing what can happen to a friendship with someone when you really appreciate & cultivate it. I am surrounded by some truly beautiful people.
+ Watching my friends accomplish goals & make life changing decisions. Fist pumps for all!
+ Evening runs. That half hour to an hour that I get to myself after work really fills me up.
+ Silly animal videos on YouTube, baristas greeting me by name & asking if I'm getting my usual, My pup Macallen, Dos Perros, pep talks from my boss, evening rain showers, & not washing my hair every day.

It's the little things, folks. All the little things lead you to all the big things. & I'm looking forward to some life-changing, big moments this year.

The A to Z of ME!

2011-09-21T08:48:00.000-07:00

I've been attractive my whole life. Clearly.

I realize I am a little late jumping on this bandwagon but I love these sorts of thing. So here we go! The A-Z of yours truly...

A. Age: 23
B. Bed size: Queen
C. Chore that you hate: Vacuuming & hanging up clothes. LOATHE both.
D. Dogs: None of my own but my family has two. Sophie, golden retriever & Mac, our new Australian Shepherd puppy.
E. Essential start to your day: Glass of ice water & a shower.
F. Favorite color: Black...is that a color? Olive green, if I HAD to choose.
G. Gold or Silver: Gold
H. Height: 5’7″
I. Instruments you play: None. Played piano & trumpet growing up & I'd love to learn how to play banjo in the future!
J. Job title: Store Manager
K. Kids: CAN NOT WAIT. & I want 100...or 5.
L. Live: Nashville
M. Mother’s name: Tracey
N. Nicknames: Beans (& many variations), Kid
O. Overnight hospital stays: None
P. Pet peeves: People peeve me for the most part. Sarcasm, loud cackling laughter, people who drag their heels when they walk, & general laziness.
Q. Quote from a movie: "
I just hate all these extroverted, obnoxious, pseudo-bohemian losers." - Enid (Ghost World)
R. Right or left handed: Right
S. Siblings: 1 older brother
U. Underwear: Victoria's Secret all the way. I have a serious addiction. Had over 300 pairs at one point.
V. Vegetable you hate: Olives & Mushrooms. YUCK!
W. What makes you run late: Having to stand in the Starbucks line for eons.
X. X-Rays you’ve had: Jaw, teeth, ankle, foot,
Y. Yummy food that you make: I do not make food. Yet.
Z. Zoo Animal: Otters & giraffes!

I N S T A G R A M S

2011-09-19T14:23:00.000-07:00

life lately (in instagrams)

1. Favorite checkered shirt 2. Mixing stripes & polka dots 3. Puppy hangs 4. Andy & Alexis playing connect four 5. Bon fire for Logan's birthday 6. Two for ones with Alexis 7. Pink shoez 8. Fleet Foxes record 9. Making guacamole 10. Cutest puppy photo ever!

See more here!

Book Review : Committed

2011-09-13T09:00:00.000-07:00

I finished this book last night & wanted to do a quick write-up about it before work. Elizabeth Gilbert is quickly becoming one of my favorite writers. Most people are familiar with her best-seller, Eat, Pray, Love which became a movie & sky rocketed Gilbert's fame. Committed is the follow-up to that story. It chronicles the challenges that her & her fiance face when he is denied access into the United States at random one day when they are returning from a trip. What they are faced with is nothing short of a mess. The government decides that in order for Felipe, her fiance, to enter the country again, Gilbert & him must get married. Which is a bit of a problem. If you read Eat, Pray, Love you'll know Gilbert basically does not believe in marriage anymore. So, she sets out, traveling the world (again, but this time with Felipe in tow) & studies marriage from all different points of view, cultures, & societies. What you get is trully a treasure trove of information concerning the past, present, & future of marriage.

I've never thought too much about marriage. I've always known that one day, I want to get married. I know what I want my wedding to be like & more importantly, I know what I want my marriage to look like. I've probably come to these conclusions thanks to my parents & their successful 30-year marriage to one another. I also know what I don't want my marriage to look like. I've seen alot of marriages fall apart whether it be my friends' parents or even close friends of my own who got married at a young age & are now divorcing at a young age. You wonder what went wrong & cross your fingers (hope to die) that you will never make those mistakes in your own future marriage.

Committed challenged all of my beliefs concerning marriage & even monogamous relationships as a whole. By mid-book I was thinking, "Why on earth would anyone ever want to get married with statistics like this?!" The divorce rate is astronomical here in the US, compared to in other countries, & for good reasons. We seem to take marriage pretty lightly here, as a whole and some still seem to have a warped view on what a marriage actually is. However, by the end of the book, I felt even more firm in my beliefs that a successful marriage is something that I want in my life & it seems that my idea of what that marriage will be like seems to be a pretty solid one, which I must thank my parents for, again.

As a whole, I just loved this book. Having fallen in love with her story of traveling the world, finding herself & ultimately falling in love with Felipe in Eat, Pray, Love, I was beyond excited when I found that there was a follow-up to that story. I would definitely recommend this to all types of readers. Don't be fooled, this book is not "chick-lit".

I'll leave you with this...
"The poet Jack Gilbert wrote that marriage is what happens "between the memorable." He said that we often look back on our marriages years later, perhaps after one spouse has died, and all we can recall are "the vacations, and emergencies"--the high points and low points. The rest of it blends into a blurry sort of daily sameness. But it is that very blurred sameness, the poet argues, that comprises marriage. Marriage is those two thousand indistinguishable conversations, chatted over two thousand indistinguishable breakfasts, where intimacy turns like a slow wheel." - Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed

23 THINGS TO DO BEFORE 24

2011-09-11T13:26:00.000-07:00

I first learned about this fun goal writing activity through Elsie. It was a couple years ago now, but I promised myself I would start doing this every year to help give every year more of a purpose. I absolutely love goal writing. My 30-day goal idea feature was sort of a bust. Sometimes a busy schedule gets in the way of accomplishing things you set out to do. However, I think having 365 days to complete these goals will actually allow me to accomplish them. I'll be putting a tab up this week so I can hold myself accountable! I also have this list hanging in my closet where I'll see it every day.

Without further ado, I give you my list of 23 things that I would like to do before turning 24 on August 19th, 2012.

1. Run a 10k.

2. Save $1,000 just for fun.

3. Host a dinner party.

4. Get the blog designed by a graphic designer.

5. Upgrade MacBook (more memory, upgrade to lion, etc).

6. Start half sleeve!

7. Go on a date.

8. Purchase a longboard & hit the road!

9. Go vegan for a week...maybe a month.

10. Get motorcycle license.

11. Have a spa day at Woodhouse Spa.

12. Go to Vegas!

13. Completely transform the Harley shop I manage.

14. Document life more (photos, blogging, journaling, etc)

15. Get in the BEST shape of my life.

16. Start personal training program through ACE.

17. Create my dream bedroom & living space (currently in the works).

18. GIVE MORE. More love, more hugs, more compliments, more kindness.

19. Continue growing my personal style.

20. Take a roadtrip!

21. Read all the books in my possession currently.

22. Get very special tattoo on my back (which is a bit of a secret...).

23. Start new art journal for year 23!

I could elaborate so much on each goal - Why I'm setting out to accomplish this or how I think I'll go about getting it done, but this post would be a million years long! I'll probably elaborate more once I start accomplishing each goal though.

What are you wanting to accomplish in the next year?

Things I Love (Weekend Edition)!

2011-09-03T08:22:00.000-07:00

I didn't have internet access on Thursday like I had planned so here's a Things I Love (Weekend Edition)!

Happy to be back in the TILT game!

Here's what I'm loving this week...

1. Pinterest! I finally started using my Pinterest account that I signed up for a while ago & I am loving being able to organize everything on one site instead of using computer files. What a genius website! Click here to follow my boards!

2. Chevron curtains. I plan on snagging a pair on Etsy next month to help with my bedroom redesign. Very excited :)

3. My family's new Australian Shepherd puppy! Blog, meet Mac. Macallen in full. Named after my dad's favorite scotch.

4. Nude nail polish. <3

5. These super cute Kelsi Dagger boots.

6. Apple TV! I just purchased this today & although it's still in the box, I've used it at friends' houses & I am so excited to have it at my own now!

What are you loving this week?

WHAT I WORE

2011-08-31T08:00:00.000-07:00

I am extremely excited to get back into posting What I Wore posts. Work had me consumed for a bit so I was literally wearing jeans & tank tops every single day. Nothing to see here!

But I've found a happy balance now & am making time to get dressed & do my hair in the mornings. Oh, happy day! Plus fall is fast approaching which is my favorite time of the year to get dressed.

dress - Old Navy ; belt - Target ; sandals - Aldo ; necklace - U.O.

T-shirt dresses are probably my most favorite invention ever. They are so comfy. I stole this one from my bff (& now housemate!) when she ran off to France last year. It has since never been returned but I don't think she minds. ;) I wore this on Sunday - A day I spent running errands, shopping, & posted up at Fido catching up on computer stuff. The internet at our house has seriously been such a bust. We tried out AT&T for the first time, rather than Comcast. Comcast has always given me such problems but now I'm just coming to the conclusion that there is no reliable internet in Nashville. Hopefully this issue will be resolved soon because I miss watching Netflix in bed. Wahhh!

I'll be back tomorrow with a TILT post then sharing my 23 Things To Do Before 24 on Friday! Busy week!

JOURNAL DAY : What I Know For Sure

2011-08-30T08:00:00.000-07:00

I got a little behind on Dani's Journal Day posts over at Sometimes Sweet. But I love the topics so I figured I would play catch up!

Today's entry is about what we know for sure. She writes. "The older we get, the more certain we get about who we are and what our purpose is. For me, alot of it is still unknown, but as I make my way down my own path, I have begun to realize that there are indeed some inevitable truths that I know for sure. On your own blog, write a post that talks about 'the one thing you know for sure.'"

My life experiences have given me a strong sense of self, therefore quite a few things that I feel like I know for sure. I've learned alot of difficult lessons like where happiness comes from, & why honesty is best. I've learned how difficult relationships are & how hard work pays off. However, there is one thing that I know for surely sure.

You complete yourself. You must complete yourself. Fill yourself up. You must give yourself as much love as humanly possible simply because you deserve it. No friendship, romantic relationship or love from any one else will ever "complete you". If you're expecting a relationship to fill a void you might have or give you feelings that you cannot make for yourself, then you are in that relationship for all the wrong reasons. You must first complete yourself. Be your bestfriend - your number one - your everything. When you do those things for yourself, your relationships become instantly more satisfying. You are able to appreciate the person standing in front of you for exactly who they are, not what they can do for you. You aren't lowering your expectations, you are simply stating, "I don't need you here. I want you here." A statement that I believe is far more powerful than simply, "I need you."

I've always been a strong believer of knowing exactly who you are, what you want, & where you're going before entering into a romantic relationship. I cannot say that I practiced this idea in my last relationship but this I know for sure...I will next time.

What do you know for sure?

Boating 101

2011-08-29T08:00:00.000-07:00

A few weeks ago, my family & I visited Rosemary Beach in Florida. The vacation was much needed by all & welcomed with outstretched arms. We decided to rent a boat for the first time, a pontoon boat to be exact. I have only one memory of being on a boat. A fishing boat of some sort when I was just 7 or 8. My friend Travis got bit by a dolphin. So...that was interesting.

This experience was completely different though. I was extremely nervous when we first arrived. To put it simply, I am terrified of the ocean. I'm not afraid of drowning nor afraid of being eaten by a shark but I am terrified of large, vast things. Big buildings get my heart racing so you can imagine what happens when I stare out into a big, deep body of water.

But once on the boat, I felt pretty comfortable. We rode out to Shell Island, an uninhabited island off the coast. The beach was BEAUTIFUL & the water unlike anything I'd seen before. The bay side of the island was calm with water only waist deep. The gulf side was FULL of shells & sand dollars. We walked the beach & collected a bucketful after having lunch on the boat. My brother snorkeled for a bit & I swam in the middle of the ocean for the first time in my life on our way back. I had been out in the waves before but I had never swam where I couldn't touch. It was invigorating at first, then I got freaked out & promptly swam back to the boat. But hey, atleast I tried!

Cowboys & Indians...& Aliens?

2011-08-28T12:32:00.000-07:00

Warning: Image heavy...

(Please note: Lauren's hilarious face. She makes the best of them!)

The lack of posts around here isn't due to the lack of adventure. These past few weeks have been packed full of summer fun with my bests. I have a couple of posts scheduled about my birthday beach trip but I couldn't hold off on posting all of these hilarious photos from last night. We're still working on the internet situation at our house which is why this place has been so quiet!

The girls & I had a party at our new house in Nashville to celebrate my 23rd birthday & invite friends to see our humble abode. The theme was Cowboys & Indians. We decided to keep it interesting & add the option of dressing up as an alien. The outcome was laughable.

The house was packed with so many new & old faces. Best birthday yet.

BEACHGRAMS

2011-08-16T21:08:00.000-07:00

I hope everyone is having a fabulous week...because I know I am!
Here are a few stills from vacation so far via Instagram...

1. Our boat trip to Shell Island; 2. View from the beach house; 3. At the beach in my leopard pink bikini; 4. Mango daiquiri; 5. Self portrait while bday shopping; 6. Big brother with a feather rat tail...don't ask; 7. Swimming in the ocean for the first time; 8. A storm rolling in on the beach

I'll be back soon with a post on our boat trip to Shell Island!

Prepping For Fall

2011-08-14T16:31:00.001-07:00

I am currently at Rosemary Beach in Florida with my family on vacation. My birthday is Friday so I decided to take myself on a little shopping trip today. I intended to just buy whatever caught my eye but I ended up purchasing half the things on my Fall wishlist. Every single thing I purchased was atleast 20% off AND tax-free! How did I get so lucky?!

These are the items purchased that were on my list for fall...

Black leather jacket - Old Navy ; Booties - Old Navy ; Distressed denim - A&F (I would never shop here, however all denim was HALF OFF!) ; Checkered shirt - J. Crew ; Black leather satchel - Francesca's

I am amazed that I stepped foot into A&F AND purchased something. The music & cologne nearly scared me off but I muddled through all in the name of denim! The checkered shirt has been on my wishlist for eons. I knew J. Crew would be the place to purchase it but I wasn't impressed with the price. However, I scored it for 30% off!

I am out of my mind excited about the faux leather jacket. I'm impressed with the structure & quality being that it was only $50 and from Old Navy, which I am usually not able to shop at because nothing ever fits me correctly. I've wanted one of these suckers for years.

Hopefully I'll be styling these pieces in the near future! Fall can't come soon enough.

MOVING DAY!

2011-08-05T15:41:00.000-07:00

Hello, friends!

Sorry if things are a little quiet around here but I am officially in move in mode!

We got the keys today. Can you guess which one is mine?

Lots to do in the next few days!

See ya soon!

An Update

2011-07-30T09:39:00.000-07:00

Good afternoon, blogosphere! I'm taking a little break from my never ending to-d0 list to try & catch up on my bloglovin' updates. Over 500+ updates! Sheesh. Not sure when I'll ever get through these...

I'm sitting here in disbelief that July is OVER. Where is this summer going? It has seriously been such a busy couple of months. August is going to be jam packed as well. I start my new position with Harley on Monday. I will be the store manager of our alternative retail outlet in downtown. I'm extremely excited to be working in downtown Nashville full-time. It's such a different culture down there & I absolutely love talking to the tourists who get excited about being in Nashville.

Next weekend is my big move into the city! I don't think I've ever been more excited about a move. Lauren, Kayla & I are busy getting packed & making plans for housewarming get togethers. We're all looking forward to having new spaces to decorate & make our own. The following weekend is my birthday trip to the beach! Kayla will be joining me mid-vaca & I imagine we'll be up to no good. I've never needed a vacation & margarita so badly in my life!

Tonight is the costume party of all costume parties. My dear friend, & new assistant at the shop, will be joining me. You're never going to guess what we're going as...

Until next time!

Grassy Knoll Movie Night : Harold & Maude

2011-07-25T15:48:00.000-07:00

Last night I attended an outdoor movie event that my bestfriend, Lauren, helped organize. Grassy Knoll Movie Night takes place every few weeks in an empty lot next to one of Nashville's best coffee shops, Bongo Java. There were food trucks galore so you can imagine my excitement! Food trucks are fairly new to Nashville but have recently been blowing up. It seems there is a new one popping up every week.

I got a taste of I Dream of Weenie and Pizza Buds. Both were deeeelicious! Jackalope, a new all women's run brewery, was also there but I wasn't in a beer mood so I skipped out. I plan on trying it next time though. Plus I'm all about a brewery run by girls!

The movie that played last night was Harold & Maude. I had heard of this movie but never seen it. I instantly fell in love with it! I plan on ordering it so I can watch it again & again. Harold's character is probably one of my favorite film characters ever.

Learn more about Grassy Knoll Movie Night here. There are many more dates this summer & fall!

WHAT I WORE : Spilling the lemonade

2011-07-17T19:29:00.000-07:00

shirt - fossil ; shorts - gap ; sandals - aldoshoes.com

Sometimes life hands you lemons & in the process of making lemonade, you spill the pitcher all over your new shoes. Damn.

Things don't always turn out how you want them to. Sometimes they go so far in the other direction that you wonder if you're just completely delusional & out of touch with reality. This is how I've felt for the past few days. I had something going quite swimmingly in my life. Until it wasn't swimming anymore. & that something went so far gone, it started to drown. & now I'm left here looking up at the sky saying, "WHAT THE HELL!?"

I've grieved & I'm done. Instead of trying to convince myself that this situation taught me something, I am going to attempt to forget that it ever happened.

With outstretched arms & wide open hands, I'm asking for a new batch of lemons.

WHAT I WORE

2011-07-12T18:03:00.000-07:00

Dress - 213 by Michelle Kim (Purchased at Posh Boutique) ; Necklace - Francesca's ; Sandals - Aldo

I was in no mood to be serious on Friday evening, as you can tell from that lovely photo above. Some days are sillier than others, y'know?

I purchased this b-e-a-u-tiful dress from Posh Boutique on my birthday last year. My dear friend, Haley, helped me pick it out for my birthday party. I was pretty hesitant at first since I usually only purchase black dresses for events like parties & hello!? This dress is definitely not black! In fact, it is unlike any dress I've ever worn. This was my first time wearing it with flats & I was a little afraid that the dress had too much fabric & it would make me look...sloppy? But it seemed to turn out alright! Kayla thought I looked very Italian. Perfect! ;)

That necklace is my favorite & I scored those Corilla sandals for a whopping $31.49 from Aldo last week as well as another pair. They're having another sale right now with alot of shoes marked 50% off! Getchya some!

& yes, I am really that pale in real life.

Buon Compleanno!

2011-07-11T20:24:00.000-07:00

On Friday night, we celebrated Lauren's 23rd birthday...ITALIAN style!

I swear we were campaigning for No Carb Left Behind. How do the Italians do it!?

We consumed large amounts of pasta, bread, cheese, & wine. LOTS of wine. It was the most deeeelicious party I've ever been to.

& then we boogied.

*Come back tomorrow for a What I Wore post featuring this outfit! :)

American rain, American rain

2011-07-05T17:26:00.000-07:00

The 4th of July was pretty perfect. My day was spent at the mall window shopping while waiting for my lovely new Ray Bans. I somehow scratched the lenses of the pair that I've been recently wearing. It cost less to just buy new ones so that's exactly what I did. I went with the new wayfarers. Big, black & round! Love.

The evening was spent at Logan's for a little American get together. Beer, hot dogs, & lots of new faces. We headed downtown to watch fireworks & enjoyed each others company at the end of the night. Sadly, a very close friend of Logan's was in a bad bicycle accident while on her way to the firework show. She'll probably be in the hospital for a bit so my thoughts are with her & fingers are crossed for a fast recovery. It's amazing how quickly your circumstances can change - for good or bad. Accidents happen but boy, I wish they didn't. <3

U2 + Florence & The Machine

2011-07-03T22:22:00.000-07:00

Last night, Kayla & I attended the U2 and Florence & The Machine concert in Nashville at Vanderbilt Stadium. & what a treat that was! Kayla's lovely parents took us, which was very sweet of them since we're just broke college grads. We had a fun time reliving all the old U2 songs that we forgot we knew. Florence & The Machine was absolutely BRILLIANT! She wore a gorgeous emerald green flowy number that was absolute perfection against her pale skin & vibrant red hair.

Bono was all clad in leather & looked like the coolest dude I had ever laid eyes on. The special moment came at the very end as Bono invited a blind man, who had stood in the front row the whole show, to play guitar. Bono ended up gifting him the guitar. The crowd went wild.

Brilliant. It really moved me.

A Word On : GIRLFRIENDS

2011-07-01T10:00:00.001-07:00

A Word On : Girlfriends (my girlfriends)

I truly believe that girlfriends are the salt of the earth. The bee's knees. The cat's pajamas.

I consider the women in my life to be my soulmates. A romantic love will never replace the love that I get from my girlfriends. A man's love will never trump the love that these ladies have for me.

& vice versa. These women are the loves of my life. & what a better thing to do than introduce a few of them to you since you'll be seeing alot of their faces this summer.

Lauren. My dear Lauren. Every August we celebrate another year of being bestfriends. We met in 5th grade when we signed up to do a 3 legged race together for Field Day. I used to write about Lauren in my diary. I wanted so badly for her to like me because I thought she was cool. & I was right. We're on year 13 of bestfriendship. I call her the original hipster. She's a minimalist. A floater. The hippie of the group. Her record collection trumps your grandpa's. She's seen more of Europe than I'll ever dream of seeing. She has the biggest heart & a fire inside of her that will never die. She'll probably live to be a 110 & I can't wait to grow old with her.

Kayla...or Kay as she is better known. Kayla is me. Me if I were trapped in the body of a Ralph Lauren wearing, Burberry obsessed, blonde bombshell. She is the smartest girl I know & somehow still manages to question everything because she has to know everything. I laugh more with her than with anyone. She is my other half, if such a thing existed. Where I fail, she succeeds. What I question, she has the answers for. She is so much alike me in mind & spirit, yet we're complete opposites on the outside. Funny how that works.

Shanda. She's my wing man. The artist of the group and jokingly, the pessimist. She's real. & loves real talk. She's not afraid to tell you what's up & bring you back to Earth. & let's be honest...my thoughts are rarely on earth. We question when we became friends exactly, but my first memory of Shanda is in 2nd grade. We attended a pool party together. She wore two swimsuits because she's a swimmer & that's what they do. (We wonder about that now...). She's got a bangin' body & an amazing eye for art. She studied print making in college. Hello, jealous much? I am.

The four of us have been bestfriends for half of our lives (if not more in the case of Shanda & I). I realize how truly blessed I am every time the four of us are together. We have been through absolutely everything together.

I have many other amazing girls in my life. I could go on forever but this post would be hours long! I imagine I'll have about 10 bridesmaids at my wedding. I consider myself to be one of the lucky ones.

Busy bee, busy me

2011-06-30T19:42:00.000-07:00

j-tran performing at a house show in nashville

One of my favorite photos from summer so far. Kayla & I accidently both wore stripes to a party last weekend. She got in the car & we both looked at each other like...REALLY!? We are so different yet so alike. True bffzforlyfe, y'all!

I'm getting super excited for the next month ahead. July is going to be a great one. I'll be seeing U2, Britney Spears, Hellogoodbye & quite a few others in concert this month. I've dreamed of seeing Britney since I was 9 so it will be a childhood dream fulfilled! I've got about a million fun events on my social calendar. It will be a busy month but a fulfilling one!

I've got alot of transitions going on in the job field. Lots of new responsibilities & opportunities which I am very excited about. I am so blessed that I've found my niche because I have so many friends who seem to be floating. Crossing my fingers for all the challenges ahead.

I'm a week into Jillian Michael's Ripped In 30 & l-o-v-i-n-g it. What a workout, y'all! I've also gotten back into running again. I'm hoping to run in a 10k in September so it's time I got back in the game. I'm having a fun time exploring trails near my home. Finding a new love for nature & being outside.

Cheers to a wonderful summer. What have you got planned!?

JOURNAL DAY : Describe a "first"

2011-06-28T09:00:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, one of my favorite bloggers, Dani of Sometimes Sweet, started a new feature titled JOURNAL DAY! She posts a creative writing prompt, writes an entry herself, & then asks for us to participate. I've decided to take part in it since journal days were my favorite days in school. Dani is a former highschool English teacher & found herself missing out on those days when she would leave a journal prompt for her students to do in the morning. So, she's bringing it to her blog for us to participate in! I absolutely love this idea & am looking forward to reading others' entries.

This week's prompt is...

Describe a "first" (first date, first lie, the first time you experienced something, first time in a particular setting, etc). Include as many details as possible to paint a picture.

The "first" I'll be talking about is my first concert. I went to my first concert when I was in 5th grade. Just 10 years old. The concert was SPICE GIRLS at the Starwood Amphitheater in Nashville. Which is sadly no longer there. It was an outdoor amphitheater that hosted alot of the big acts every summer. I was extremely excited & remember having to keep it a secret from my little cousin, Erin, who was also going. She was only 5 or 6 at the time & just learning how to read. I remember sitting on my aunt's back porch with my aunt & Erin. My aunt KK decided that she wanted to tell Erin that we were going to the concert that weekend. She showed her the tickets & Erin had to sound all the words out until she figured it out. She was STOKED. We would always stay up really late, jumping on the bed, pretending it was our stage, & jam out to the Spice Girls until KK would force us to go to bed.

We decided to dress according to our favorite Spice Girls. I dressed as Posh and Erin went as Baby. I had a little bob hairstyle at the time so it was perfect. I wore a little black dress & chunky platforms (at only 10!!). Erin wore a light pink dress with white platforms. I can't believe how young we were tramping around in those platform shoes. They probably weren't even that high but at that age the platforms made me feel like a real grown up. The concert was amazing. Complete with crazy outfits, fireworks, & lots of screaming along on our part. My mom & aunt also came with us. I remember when the girls performed the song, "Naked". They sat backwards on chairs with sheets draped across them. Erin & I contemplated for hours after the show whether they were actually naked or not behind those chairs. What controversy!

It was truly one of the most entertaining concerts I have ever been to. Since then, Erin and I have attended many concerts together like Aaron Carter (oh yah!), Backstreet Boys, Dixie Chicks, Carrie Underwood, & a few others. All of which were extremely entertaining despite not being huge fans of any of those acts. We always have a good time together & I'm looking forward to going to concerts in the future with her now that our musical tastes have matured!

If you'd like to participate, you can read more about Journal Day here.

30 Day Goals - July

2011-06-27T15:34:00.000-07:00

Happy Monday, friends!

As promised, I've divvied up a few goals for myself for the next 30 days. I've decided to take this month by month, so I don't get confused when the 30 days starts & stops. I've also decided to set three goals for myself instead of four. I might change this in the future but for now, we'll see how it goes!

Goals for July include...

> Complete Jillian Michaels' Ripped in 30! This seems to be sweeping the blogosphere. I am a huge Jillian Michael's fan. I have every dvd she's put out & I really believe in her techniques. I've always used her dvd's as more of a tool, rather than something I do every single day. But I'm enjoying this dvd so much that I'd like to see it through & see what kind of results I get!

> Carry my camera more - Take more photos - & blog, blog, blog! No more once-a-weekers.

> Pinch more pennies. It's no secret that I've got a serious spending problem. I'd like to cut down on my Starbucks intake (pfftyeahright) & quit spending money on little things I don't need (that means staying away from my beloved Target). I'm moving out in a little over 30 days so saving is a must!

I've set up a goal tab so I'll be able to look back & see what I've accomplished over time. Goals will be different each month. Some goals will strive to help me become a better person. Some might encourage me to visit a place I've never been before. But all goals will be personal, challenging, & just right for me!

An Update

2011-06-26T16:36:00.000-07:00

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I don't understand where the days go! They seem to drag on forever as I'm going through the motions but then all of the sudden its been almost two weeks since I've had any time to use the interwebz! Crazy.

Well, here I am. My 30 Day Detox has come to a close (officially on the 22nd) & boy, am I glad I did it! I can't say I accomplished all the goals I set out for myself but I'm very proud of my current mindset. Alot changed in these past 30 days & alot of it has to do with positive attitude which seems to carry me through the rough days.

I did not complete 20 workouts or plan&prepare 3 real dinners for myself. I did however drink alot more water & eat alot more veggies! Eating breakfast at home was a bust too so I'll just have to refocus. I found a place to live in Nashville. WOOP! I'll be moving into my new house on August 6th. It's an adorable house in 12th South. Just a few blocks from my favorite restaurant & favorite bar. What a steal! I'll be living with two of my bestfriends & I am really looking forward to it. Moving always feels like a fresh start. Can't wait...!

I haven't visited Cheekwood yet, but it's on my social calendar, which means it will be happening in the near future! I also didn't purchase a new record player but that's because I figured out how to fix the current one that I have. I did manage to sustain from negative tweeting for 30 days, which I'll be continuing because I love it!

I've decided to write up a whole new set of challenges for myself for the next 30 days. I plan on doing this every month. I'll give myself 4 new goals to accomplish each time. This way I won't feel overwhelmed with having too many tasks to complete. They will range anywhere from fitness goals to social goals as well as everything in between. & hopefully I'll be blogging more! I do so many fun things during the week that I would love to share. I just have to get better about carrying my camera around...but I'm determined!

Come back tomorrow for my list of goals.

What are your goals for the next 30 days?

ATLANTA

2011-06-14T17:00:00.000-07:00

My baby cousin & I with a sweet pup named Cooper.

These past few weeks have been a whirlwind & this life shows no signs of slowing down. I should probably set aside more time to sleep but I guess I'll just sleep when I'm dead.

I'm going on my first business trip tomorrow to Atlanta! I'm pretty excited. I'll be attending a merchandising conference for Harley-Davidson. Myself & a few other girls from the dealership are going so it should be a fun getaway! I'm hoping we'll be able to pop over to Vortex for a burger. My fave :) If only we had time for a stop at H&M. Le sigh...

Hope everyone is having a lovely week. Take care of yourself, y'all!

WEEKEND WARRIORS

2011-06-12T20:33:00.000-07:00

cma fest 2011, free ice & air conditioning, rap battles, margaritas at margaritaville, criss angel look-a-likes, dance parties at the attic, fancy cocktails at merchants, super 8, 3am hangs at greenhouse, bare feet, seeing a guy streak through centennial park...wearing my shoes, montley crue, daisy dukes, SUMMER 2011

This weekend was crazy & I loved every minute of it.

30 Day Detox : An Update

2011-06-09T20:04:00.000-07:00

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I am 17 days into my 30 Day Detox challenge, so I thought I'd do a little update!

Things have been going well. I wish I could say I'm half way to accomplishing every goal, but such is life! As much as I love setting goals, I also think it is important to take every day as it comes. & sometimes, life just doesn't go how you plan. What can ya do, really?

I have accomplished a few things though! See my original list of goals here.

1. I've been spending MUCH more time outside that I usually do. Outdoor concerts, afternoon jogs, lots of cookouts & pool time, eating outside at restaurants, etc etc etc. My job has also allowed me to be outside alot in these past couple of weeks. I'm loving my new tan.

2. I've been drinking ALOT more water. Because I've been outside so much, my water intake has increased significantly. I can definitely see a change in my skin. It's been clearer & more smooth.

3. I've allowed time for myself to eat breakfast at home a few times. However, I haven't managed to plan & cook any real meals for myself. I've whipped up a few things but I'd hardly call it a meal...

4. I've been doing great in the mental department. I've been extremely confident in these past couple of weeks & very happy with the direction my life is going. My confidence got a bit shaken up this past week when we lost an old family friend to suicide. My heart is so broken for the family this man left behind. I've tried to stay positive through the whole ordeal but it's been challenging. I'm just so glad I got to be there for my friends to show my love & support. What a terrible thing to go through.

I still have alot ahead of me! I need to increase my workouts because I've been slacking a bit. I'm still looking for a place to live. I haven't purchased that new record player yet or gone to Cheekwood, but they're on my to-do list! I also need to get to cookin' in the kitchen.

So, here's to the next 13 days! Let's kick some challenge ass!

Country Throwdown

2011-06-06T14:16:00.000-07:00

Sorry for the crickets around these parts lately. This little life of mine has gotten BUSY!

Summer is officially in swing. Which means working hard & playing harder. The pool is open & you can bet that I'm there every chance I get. Between the cook-outs & hangouts, I have little time left to sit down at the end of the day.

This past weekend was no exception! On Friday, a few of us from the dealership loaded up & headed to Willie Nelson's Country Throwdown at Fontanel, one of the most gorgeous venues that I've ever been to. Our dealership was being represented since Harley-Davidson is currently on the Throwdown tour promoting their new dark custom line of bikes. The line is geared towards the youth (21-35), so it was really great getting to meet all the young people who work for H-D corporate. I realized what a great company I work for & how many opportunities are out there for me.

We had a full day of sunshine, BBQ, country music & motorcycles. Not a bad day!

Dad was humored by the fact that I got to wear teeny-weeny shorts to work. He insisted on a photo.

This weekend will be complete madness as CMA Fest will be in full swing. I'll be working downtown at our 2nd Avenue store, which I'm super excited about. Ready to take on the crazy crowds!

Until next time...

MY SO CALLED LIFE

2011-05-29T18:34:00.000-07:00

I never dreamed of a day where my Saturdays would be spent at bike shows. Throwing back beers with bearded guys three times my age, who wear John Deere overalls under their Harley-Davidson leather vests. Yep. I saw it.

My life has recently become a mash-up of iron & ink, beards & bikes, american pride* & a southern state of mind. I'd be lying if I said these men(& women) weren't helping me heal in some weird way. They seem to have it all figured out though. It's all about how you feel when you're cruising down the highway with two wheels under you.

& isn't that just it? How you feel. It's all about how you feel.

& I feel good.

*I still remain a proud liberal democrat & a true feminist.

Things I Love (Thursday)!

2011-05-26T21:40:00.000-07:00

Oh, haaaay! I can't believe it's already Thursday!

Here's another round of things I am l-o-v-i-n-g this week.

This very true drawing.

Goodbyn! I bought my first Goodbyn last week & will hopefully be doing a few posts about my lunches soon!

This ah-mazing bandage dress from Modcloth.

Jeremy Scott's collaboration with Swatch. I want the black & gold one!

Grain & Gram - The New Gentleman's Journal. This is not only a great resource for men's fashion inspiration (my fave) but also a way to get a sneak peak into the daily life of these boys. I'm a curious one.

This spicy roasted chick pea recipe from Oh, Mishka. I'm going to make a batch on Sunday! mmm!

Love everything in Balmain's S/S 2011 collection & now that summer is here, I am dying to get into the red/white/blue/black trend.

What are you loving this week?

30 Day Detox : Goals

2011-05-24T20:56:00.000-07:00

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I officially started my 30 Day Detox yesterday.

I spent the evening doing some goal writing & planning for the summer. There alot of both minor & major changes that I want to make in my life in the next few months. I am hoping that this detox will kick start things & get my mind, body, & spirit in a position where I can tackle some BIG goals! If all goes well, I plan on turning the detox into a 30 Day Challenge. Every 30 days, I challenge myself to a list of goals & work daily to accomplish them. Overcoming challenges always gives me a huge rush & I'd like to end the summer on a good note with a proud sense of self.

The goals I've set for the 30 Day Detox are not as detailed as my challenge ones will be in the future, but my focus was to achieve an overall sense of strength & willingness at the end of these 30 days instead of having to focus on very specific challenges.

Goals {5/24/11-6/22/11}

- Body : Complete 20 workouts; Drink more water; Eat less carbs & more greens; Stop adding salts to food (OOF!); Plan & cook atleast 3 meals; Leave time in my morning routine to eat breakfast at home instead of on the road.

- Mind : Be consciously thankful every single day; Replace every negative thought with a positive one.

- Spirit : Spend more time outside; Step away from the news (my addiction); Gossip less (this includes keeping negative comments about girls who wear scrunchies to myself)

A few other (& more specific) goals:

- Find a new place in Nashville to live.

- Visit Cheekwood to see the new exhibits.

- Purchase a new record player (If you have any suggestions, let me know!)

& of course I'll be sustaining from any negative tweeting or blogging! You get what you give.

So, what do we think? Accomplishable? I think so!

& remember, you can join the 30 Day Detox whenever you'd like! Let me know if you're participating. :)

My Tweeting Hiatus (& a 30 Day Detox)

2011-05-23T08:19:00.000-07:00

Last week, I decided to give that little blue bird the cold shoulder & it felt so good (yet so bad!). My generation has become a pool of addicts. Gadget addicts, Google addicts, social networking addicts, texting addicts, blogging addicts, complete maniacal addicts! (Not to mention those who are addicted to much worst things.)We're OBSESSED with telling each other everything. What we're eating, where we are, who we're with, how we're feeling, what we're thinking...it goes on & on & on. And these days, there are a million platforms to advertise this information.

But for what? Why do we feel so compelled to share all this information? To feel more connected to others? To start a conversation, maybe even spark an arguement? Are we starved for attention?

I've always been a fan of the online community. I had a blog before the term was coined. I had a Myspace long before many. I always used the internet to connect to others. To fill a void that was created from years of being unpopular & not having alot of friends. My life has changed alot since those days. I'm no longer the attention-starved, insecure, 15 year old that I once was (but how I wish I could relive those days!). I am surrounded by great friends, I have a great family, & my life is a true blessing. Seeking out attention from others is no longer my number one priority.

So onto the point of this post! Phew! If you made it this far, BRAVO!
I took a time out from Twitter to regroup. Reprioritize. Rethink why I use social platforms to exchange information. I realized that I was feeding off the emotions of others 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Allowing other people's thoughts to seep into my own. It was time to think for myself. Regain my sense of positivity & greatfulness because you get what you give. Negativity breathes negativity.

Kaelah shared a great idea on her blog a couple of weeks ago. The 30 Day Detox. She challenged her readers to abstain from negative tweeting & blogging for 30 days. Of course, she took it to the next level & decided to make some personal changes as well. Which is what I would like to do too!

For the next 30 days, I'm going to attempt to inspire & uplift those around me as well as accomplish a few goals. Who knows, if it goes well maybe we'll turn this into a 90-day challenge!?

Come back tomorrow for a list of my 30 Day Detox goals.

Love & light, y'all!

What I Wore : This old thing

2011-05-19T20:29:00.000-07:00

tank - old navy, maybe? ; skirt - francesca's ; wedges - mia (dsw)

The truth is, my all-time favorite thing to wear is an old tank top. I'm talking worn out, ragged, been through the wash too many times, bleach stained, worn by your ex-boyfriend, OLD tank top.

This tank top is no exception. It's old. I mean really, really old! I work out in it, sleep in it, let other people wear it & yes...go to dinner in it. Where I proceed to stuff my face with pizza, spinach salad & red wine (my favorite meal).

Judge me.

Inspired by : U O

2011-05-18T18:25:00.000-07:00

Lately I've been feeling a bit uninspired...unmotivated...uneverything.

I've been feeling the most uninspired in the wardrobe department. Going from working at a boutique where I could wear floral dresses & strappy sandals everyday to a job where I am surrounded by motorcycles is a drastic change. I wear a t-shirt, jeans, & boots to work every day. That doesn't leave alot of motivation to do my hair or makeup, so I usually throw the hair up in a bun & swipe on some mascara & lip balm. It's so not my thing. But I love my job, so it's a sacrifice I was willing to take I guess!

Tonight I flipped through U.O.'s May catalogue & felt a little twinge of excitement for summer & my summer wardrobe. Excitement for more weekends like my last. Lots of night swimming, margarita drinking, party throwing, beach going & maybe even motorcycle riding!? But mostly dress wearing & swimsuit shopping. :)

Here are a few images that inspired me...

{All images via Urban Outfitters}

It looks like I might be headed to my local U.O. this weekend to get my summer fix!

Surprise!

2011-05-15T13:57:00.000-07:00

This past weekend has been a timely reminder of how amazing friendships can be. I am truly blessed. On Friday, bff Lauren decided to throw a surprise party for her lovely boyfriend, David (It's also their 1 year anniversary this month)! She spent alot of time planning so the surprise would go off without a hitch. Lauren is a terrible secret keeper so I'm still not quite sure how she pulled it off! The ladies & I, along with a few of David's friends set up at Bongo Java East after they closed for the evening. At 9pm sharp, he arrived with Lauren & was completely surprised! Success!

We spent the evening drinking champagne, dancing, & getting caught up with all our favorite people. It was a wonderful evening. :)

I didn't roll in until 5:30am this morning after last night's festivities. 5:30 AM, PEOPLE! I hadn't done that since college. Shanda & I spent the evening at a show at The Basement to see our lovely friends, The Gills. A dance party & Wizard of Oz viewing followed that. I hadn't really realized how weird The Wizard of Oz truly is...until now.

Until next time! xxx

Today, I'm Free. {A word on: Life}

2011-05-05T13:20:00.000-07:00

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It's rare when I wake up feeling completely refreshed. World War III breaks out every time that alarm clock jolts me to consciousness. "What will today bring? How will I deal? Why am I so tired? Why do I feel so defeated? I wonder if he texted me...No he didn't. How come? Why do I feel so disconnected from everyone? Why is it so quiet? Is the sun up? What on earth am I going to wear? I feel like barfing. Maybe I can call in sick? Will I get in trouble? Why do I feel so terrible? I don't feel pretty. I definitely don't look pretty. I hate my clothes. I hate my hair..." These thoughts completely consume me 24/7. TWENTY FOUR SEVEN, PEOPLE. I think the question I ask myself most is "Am I crazy?"

The answer is no. (I think I'm just slightly moody, prone to depression & maybe a little edgy, self righteous, & judgemental. No big deal.)

This morning was different though. I woke up feeling well-rested, renewed, peaceful, & ready to take on anything. The truth looked me square in the face this morning and I decided to shake it's hand and let go. Life is not about being in control of everything. It's not about making people like you, forcing friends to hang out with you, guilt-tripping others into caring about you. It's not about looking put together every day or saying all the right things to that cute stranger who struck up a conversation with you. It's not about eating perfectly-portioned meals or working out until your butt looks "just right." It isn't about having expensive hair products, expensive shoes, expensive cars, expensive whatever. My mind has been so cluttered with thoughts of how things SHOULD be that I forgot to care about how things ARE. I've become numb to what I actually have to work with, which is alot.

I have a family who supports me more than I've ever dreamed of. I have girlfriends who make me feel better about myself than I ever will. I have guy friends who tell me I look pretty more than a boyfriend ever has. I have a job I love that allows me to be creative, learn new things, & feel more empowered than I ever have. I am healthy. I am able. & I am surely willing to make something of this life that I've been given.

I woke up this morning with different thoughts than the night before. I woke up thinking this...

This is my one shot. To create a beautiful, fulfilling, exciting, adventure-filled life. I'm not going to achieve that life sitting around sulking about all the things that I wish I had. I may not have everything figured out but I have people in my life that care about me. They tell me. They show me. The rest will come. It will surely come.

In conclusion, I'm finished. Finished with the guilt. Finished with the dark thoughts, the self loathing, the grudges & the wounds. From now on it's up, up, up.

And I challenge you to challenge yourself to look at your world a little different. A little soul searching never hurt anyone.

Catch me if you can...

Book Review : The Pioneer Woman: From Black Heels to Tractor Wheels

2011-05-03T09:00:00.000-07:00

I've been in a sort of book funk lately. Starting & stopping alot of books that have been on my list for a while. I found all of them to be a bit uninspiring so I would stop in the middle & never finish it or try starting over completely. Alas, I failed to find a book that would keep my attention.

Until this little baby found it's way into my hands! I've been reading Ree Drummond's blog for just over a year now. Her banter is hysterical & she has one of my most favorite blogger voices of all time. I don't have her cookbook (I'm not much of a cook) so I was excited when she decided to turn her love story into a book. I may not cook but I do love to read! Her story of meeting her husband is the kind of story that movies are made of. It's difficult remembering that her story is completely, 100% true! I laughed & cried...& laughed tons more. Her blogger voice definitely carried into her book. I basically felt like I was reading a long, blog entry (which is how this book got started, by the way).

So, if you're into chick-lit & need a quick, easy ready to lift your spirits - I would definitely pick this up! & check out Ree's blog and website . You won't regret it! :)

A Night with Tom Jones

2011-05-02T17:30:00.000-07:00

Saturday night was a very special night. I checked a major event off my bucketlist...

Seeing Mr. Tom Jones himself in concert at The Ryman.

& oooh, baby! He did not disappoint. The highlight of the show came during his famous song Delilah. Mid song you see a pair of panties sore over the audience & onto stage. From then on, it was a mad dash to the stage. Women held their undies high as they ran to the stage trying to get a good aim. It was definitely a site to see! I have mad respect for a man who can still woe the ladies at 72!

What I Wore : Lavender

2011-04-28T16:03:00.001-07:00

(I like to put my hands in my pockets. Obvs.)

blouse - LOFT ; jeans - forever 21 ; sandals - so old I can't remember! ; ring - francesca's ; necklace - banana republic

I'm kind of obsessed with Lavender lately. It's everywhere! I picked up this pretty blouse at Loft for a whopping fifteen bucks! I'm wearing it out to dinner with a friend tonight. Perfect top for a perfect spring day!

Today I spent the day reading, relaxing, & recharging. It's nice having Thursdays off. It gives me a chance to gear up for the busy weekend. My apologies for being MIA around the interwebz lately but work has been keeping me busy, busy! I'm nearly two weeks into my new position at Harley Davidson & I'm absolutely loving it. I never pictured myself working at a motorcycle dealership, but I must say - I'm fitting in pretty well! & it sure is nice being able to wear jeans to work every day & not worry about if my tattoos are covered. I'll be getting my motorcycle license here soon, which is crazy to think about. I've always been interested in learning to ride but I never thought I'd actually take the steps to do it. My dad & brother are also interested in getting theirs so we might just make it a family affair!

I'm off to 55 South for some good ole' southern comfort food. Hope everyone is having a lovely week. xxx

I N S T A G R A M S

2011-04-24T00:04:00.000-07:00

1. Polka dots on a Thursday // 2. Morning Joe // 3. Impromptu roadtrip with the besties // 4. Boots at High Class Hillbilly // 5. Favorite new book // 6. Pool party // 7. Enjoying an iced latte // 8. Kitty cuddles // 9. Harley homework // 10. Speaks for itself...

Things I Love (Thursday)!

2011-04-21T10:28:00.001-07:00

It's Thursday!

My day off! & it couldn't be more beautiful outside.

Here are a few things that I'm loving this week...

The newest addition to our family. Little gnome salt & pepper shakers! Aren't they cute?

This very true statement. Found via Kaelah Bee's blog.

This portable tote!

The Pioneer Woman's latest book. An amazing, heart-warming, hilariously TRUE love story!

I'll be doing a book review soon.

This leather turban. I love leather. My addiction will only get worst while working for Harley Davidson.

Kaelah Bee being Blogger of the Moment on Modcloth!

She's my favoritest blogger & also a local living in Nashville.

I've followed her for years & it's so fun to watch her blow up on the blogger scene.

Elf's Beauty Books. I bought all three at Target for $4.99 a piece. Woah!

These 5 Simple Rules to be Happy. Via the one in pink.

What are you loving this week?

p.s. I won't be posting an outfit post like originally planned today. I'm going on an impromptu road trip to visit a friend. But I'll be back in action this weekend!

Working for the weekend

2011-04-20T17:43:00.000-07:00

My new uniform for work.

(cool Harley Davidson tees!)

This week has been absolutely overwhelming. & it's only Wednesday!

I started by new job with Boswell's Harley Davidson on Monday & I couldn't be more thrilled to be a part of that company. I have a mountain of work ahead of me & alot to learn but I'm definitely up for the challenge. I'll be the visual merchandiser for three of their locations. In order to merchandise properly, I'm having to learn the product from top to bottom. That means learning why one leather jacket is better than another. & learning how power stretch, mesh liners, & zip vents benefit the customer. I'm also learning how a helmet should properly fit, as well as gloves, riding boots, & goggles. It's ALOT. I never knew so much science went into the design of riding clothes.

Merchandising for these customers is a whole other ball game too. I'm used to helping teenage girls select the proper dress to wear to Friday night's football game. Now I'm having to make clothing look appealing to biker dudes. Biker dudes in biker gangs! Biker dudes with biker wives who want cool biker gear! The targer customer is way different than anything I've ever dealt with. I will say though, these guys (& girls) are the friendliest, most warm-hearted, open people. Everyone has welcomed me with open arms. Even the tough guys.

I'll be back tomorrow (on my day off!) with an outfit post & more. :)

A new shirt...& first day jitters

2011-04-17T21:14:00.000-07:00

I don't think this really qualifies as a What I Wore post but I wanted to show off my favorite new shirt. I've never owned anything quite like it. For one, I don't really like wacky patterns. Secondly, I'm not the biggest fan of wearing color. & third, I HATE when shirts are cinched at the waist.

& look at me! I'm wearing a multi-colored, aztec printed shirt that is cinched at the waist. & I cinched it even more with a black belt. WHO AM I!?I purchased my last batch of clothes from Francesca's using my trusty discount on Friday. I'm going to miss that discount...

On a happier note, I start my new big girl job tomorrow at Boswell's Harley Davidson & I am so so so excited! But also really nervous. REALLY nervous.

Here goes nothin'!

Artist Spotlight : Charmaine Olivia

2011-04-17T12:38:00.000-07:00

Today's Artist Spotlight highlights the work of Charmaine Olivia. I die die die for her work. Her work reminds me a little of Brian Viveros'. Just more feminine & pretty. Her silhouette series is most definitely my favorite. She has alot of prints for sale here and a lovely little blog you can read here. However, I will warn you, some of her work is NSFW. So proceed with caution!

Here are a few of my favorites:

{all images via the artist's website or etsy}

Boston, MA.

2011-04-16T22:37:00.000-07:00

Lost a good friend today.

R.I.P. Boston.

Love you, baby boy.

What I Wore : A Day Off

2011-04-12T16:11:00.000-07:00

blouse - urban outfitters ; jeans - forever 21 ; necklace - francesca's

I did absolutely nothing today.

Except for stay in bed until 2pm,

watch hours of What The Buck,

& eat cantaloupe.

Yep. Wanna fight about it?

Spring Wishlist

2011-04-12T06:00:00.000-07:00

With so many pretty spring things popping up all over the interwebz, I thought it would be a great opportunity to share a few things on my spring wishlist!

A big, leather bag like Anthropologie's Muted Paillettes Bag

Pretty new lipstick like Mac's St. Germain

A long sleeved mini like this American Retro dress

A black leather jacket from Zara

A statement necklace like BCBG's jar necklace

A fun turban like this one from U.O.

New music like Foo Fighters' latest album "Wasting Light"

What's on your spring wishlist?

what i wore : margaritas & mental illness

2011-04-07T23:08:00.000-07:00

What a whirlwind week this has been!

Here's what I wore to have top shelf margaritas & tableside guacamole...& more margaritas...& more guacamole...at Cantina Loredo.

jeans & top - forever 21; shoes - mia (purchase here); necklace - vintage

& over $100 later, we decided we had had enough. But let's be honest, we'll probably go back tomorrow night for more.

This week has been a struggle. My anxiety seems to be building up a bit lately. Most likely because of the impending job switch that will be happening soon. As much as I try not to let it run my life, I know deep down that anxiety is a big part of me. The truth is, I have a little secret. I struggle with general anxiety disorder & a few weird side affects from that that I'm not quite ready to share. This means I am stressed out 24/7 & alot of it unfortunately, is completely subconscious. It affects me both mentally, emotionally, & even physically on a day to day basis. On most days, my anxiety gives me a dull feeling in my stomach. It makes me feel slightly short of breath & sometimes a little spacey. On my bad days, I am extremely irritable, emotional, & completely neurotic (in my opinion). I get very impatient & short with those who try to carry a conversation with me. I get extremely task oriented & insist on making a list of things to keep my hands busy, busy, busy. I feel like the more I physically do, the better I can push the anxiety away. & it's always worked until recently.

Over the past year or two, I have discovered that working out gives me a sense of calm that I can't find through any other coping techniques. That's been my main coping mechanism & de-stresser these past few months & I must say, it's paying off in unexpected ways! By channeling my anxiety into something positive (ie: educating myself on fitness), I've lost 6 pounds & discovered a whole fitness world that I never even knew about. I try to spend thirty minutes to an hour in the gym every day. Most weeks I'll usually accomplish this 5 days a week, which is a start. I love reading fitness magazines & blogs for different work-out ideas & challenges. For once in my life, I'm actually excited about bikini shopping. This my friends, is a great start to 2011. :)

Do you have issues with sress & anxiety? How do you cope? I'd love to hear!

Arist Spotlight : Nate Frizzell

2011-04-04T18:00:00.000-07:00

Today's artist spotlight showcases the work of California based artist Nate Frizell, one of my all time favorite painters (& now is a sculptor!). I ran across a painting of his on Tumblr a couple of years ago which intrigued me. I'm now an avid reader of his blog & hope to purchase a few prints by him once I move in the summer.

(the first painting I saw by Frizzell & my all time favorite.)

Here are a few of my favorites...

(source)

A Special Announcement

2011-04-04T13:05:00.000-07:00

No outfit to blog today. Thunderstorms & tornados squashed that idea. However, I do have some very exciting news to share! As of April 18th, I will be the official visual merchandiser for Boswell's Harley Davidson of Nashville!

Yowee! I am so excited! I had my final interview on Friday morning & when I was offered the position, I quickly accepted. This will be my first job in my field so I am very, very excited. The position is a brand new one that they are creating just for me so I am really excited to have the opportunity to carve out my own responsibilities. I'll be working at three different locations in Nashville. The company is expecting alot of creativity from me so this job will be really challenging, which is exactly what I need at this point in my life. I couldn't be more excited to start learning a whole new industry. & maybe I'll even learn how to ride a motorcycle...we'll see!

I'll be back later today with the Artist Spotlight, which was supposed to go up yesterday (oops!)

Until then, I'm off to do some spring cleaning & organizing! Go!

what i wore : dressing like a pro

2011-03-29T17:33:00.001-07:00

jeans - express; shirt - bcbg generation; silk blazer - urban outfitters; shoes - matty's (dsw)

I didn't realize how colorful my wardrobe has been lately until donning this nearly all black ensemble. Black used to make up the bulk of my closet, even in the spring. I think my personal style is finally starting to grow & settle into a different place though. & that place is colorful!

I also can't believe I'm wearing flared jeans again! I think the Rachel Zoe bug bit me.

Anywho, today was a BIG day. I had an interview with a company that I am very much looking forward to working for (that is, if the opportunity fits!). I had my first interview with Boswell's Harley Davidson in Nashville. My second interview is on Friday, which is where all of the nitty gritty will be discussed. If you're a friend of mine, you realize how fitting this job would be. Leather, studs, burley bearded motorcycle dudes with tattoos...I mean, it's practically screaming my name! In all seriousness, Harley Davidson is a great company to be involved with. I would be a visual merchandiser/buyer for one of their locations here in Nashville. It's a company I could really picture myself growing with so fingers are crossed! I would appreciate it if you'd cross yours too. :)

Tonight I'm having another go at JJ's Wine Bar! I have a feeling this is going to be a great summer hangout...

Hope everyone is having a wonderful Tuesday!

Artist Spotlight : Rosie Hardy

2011-03-27T20:10:00.001-07:00

Today's post spotlights photographer, Rosie Hardy, who was featured in my last TILT post. As mentioned before, I've been a fan of her work since it first got out to the interwebz (2 or 3 years ago?). She first started with self portraits for a 365 project. Her work has changed alot over time but there has always been something both haunting & delicate in all of her photographs. I feel like if her photographs had personalities, they would all be very moody.

Rosie is a 20 year old photographer based out of the UK. Yes, you read that right - only 20! Although I see most of her work only online, she shot the cover of the most recent Maroon 5 album, Hands All Over, which I found to be incredibly exciting! It seems like she's accomplished alot for being so young, which is well deserved in my opinion since her talent is so obvious.

Here are a few of my favorites:

Links to Rosie's work :

flickr // website // blog

Things I Love (Thursday)!

2011-03-24T19:38:00.000-07:00

Today is Thursday, which means tomorrow is Friday. You know what that means!

Friday, Friday...Gotta get down on Friday...

Ohkay, pretend that didn't happen.

Here's what I'm loving this week!

1. This cute, portable record player. & it's only $84 on Amazon! Think I might have to buy me a new record player next week with my paycheck... :)

2. These neat dolls by Spitfire Girl. This online shop features about a million different odds & ends that I would love to have for my future wee ones. Dani over at Sometimes Sweet talked about these on her blog.

3. This pretty, & pretty funny necklace. Although I do think this Charlie Sheen business is a bit ludicrous, I've been using the term 'winning' for a long time so I think this necklace would fit me perfectly.

4. Long hair! I've never been more determined to grow mine long again.

5. These cool images over at the NY Times website. It shows fashion week models before & after. So cool!

6. The haunting images from Rosie Hardy. I've been following her photography for years & it just keeps getting better.

7. These very creatively designed rainboots. Love, love, love!

8. & of course, the ever amazing bits of advice & wisdom coming out of the Brotips Tumblr. My favorite has a bit of coarse language. But you can see it here.

I'm also loving: working out (& losing weight/seeing results!), fresh fruit, jersey shore (don't judge me), scary movies, rekindling friendships, pink nail polish, black swan on dvd next tuesday!, self magazine's ipad app, & words with friends - find me! username: lindseylstout

What are you loving this week?

what i wore

2011-03-23T14:39:00.000-07:00

sweater - francesca's; blouse - the limited; jeans - forever 21; shoes - gap's city flats

Oh, haaaay!

Today is a rainy, dreary, downer Wednesday. I have the day off so I spent most of the morning & early afternoon sleeping. It felt good to get more than four or five hours of shut eye in. For whatever reason, my sleep schedule was thrown for a loop these past few weeks. I think I'm getting back to normal though.

I spent the rest of my day catching up on my blogroll on Bloglovin' & running a few errands. My evening is going to prove to be a little more exciting. I've got plans to go to dinner with a girlfriend, then we're headed up to Nashville to see our dear friend Kree Woods play. I believe this is only her second show, so I'm really excited to be able to attend! That girl has got the gift of many talents.

I hope everyone has had a lovely week thus far.

I'll be back tomorrow with Things I Love Thursday!

Oops!

2011-03-22T18:55:00.001-07:00

My apologies for the unintentional blogging hiatus! Things got a little busy around here. My parents went out of town so I was busy playing housekeeper & zookeeper to our many animals. Plus I've been running on little sleep so I haven't really found the energy to do much of anything on the interwebs in the past week. Lots of work plus lots of play equals not alot of time for sleeping. But life is good!

I'll return tomorrow with my more normal self & a What I Wore post!

See ya then!

what I wore

2011-03-12T21:29:00.001-08:00

dress - francescas; belt - target; boots - steve madden

I didn't plan on posting again until tomorrow. But lo & behold...here I am! If pale skin isn't really your thing, I suggest you just skip these 'What I Wore' posts for the next six months. The weather is getting warmer which means no more tights! Unfortunately, for you, that means getting to see my ghostly skin, which doesn't really change much over the summer. I'm not much of a tanner & I can't say I really enjoy being outside in these Tennessee summers. However, I do love spring & plan on taking full advantage of it this year. So maybe my skin will get a little sun. Maybe.

I have a confession. This dress is my most favorite purchase in a long time. That means I like to wear this dress. ALOT. I wore it out last night to meet some girlfriends at this great new wine bar in downtown Franklin called JJ's Wine Bar (& then I wore the dress to work today). If you're a fan of self-service ice cream places like Sweet Cece's, but prefer somewhere less kid friendly, than JJ's is the place for you. You're given a card which tracks your purchases, & you basically walk around tasting wine out of these self-serve machines that dispense wine. You can choose to taste the wine, or have a half-glass pour or full-glass pour. It's an ingenius idea! They have lots of wine to choose from that ranges from very low-priced to very, very high. The staff was super friendly too. I'll admit, I think those boys were just excited to see a few pretty, young things in there since downtown Franklin isn't really bumpin' with 20-somethings on a Friday night. ;)

I'm having a little get together tomorrow with some friends for wine, games, & good conversation. Hopefully we'll remember to snap a few photos!

lately: in instagrams

2011-03-11T15:15:00.001-08:00

My yoga buddy, Cloee

Loving the new Starbucks logo & marketing campaign!

Favorite new dress (from Francescas)

Getting a special tasting at J. Alexanders in their new pizza kitchen!

Four cheese, italian salami pizza = perfection

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend! I'll be back Sunday. :)

a word on : tattoos

2011-03-09T13:18:00.000-08:00

(very old photo - circa 2008)

I get alot of questions about my tattoos both on the internet & in person. With Spring fast approaching, I thought it would be a perfect time to do a little tattoo post since some people aren't even aware that I have them until I start wearing sandals & short sleeved shirts. I have four tattoos located on my the tops of my feet, my right wrist, & my left arm.

I took the plunge to get my first tattoo at age 18 while in NYC visiting some friends. A small skull & crossbones on my right foot. It bears no deep meaning but is a great representation of my personal style & I absolutely adore it still. I had it done by an artist named Buddha at Red Rocket Tattoo. It was a great first experience, having a few hands to hold since my girlfriends came with me. The tattoo took about 15 minutes & Buddha was a great artist to have as my first. He warned me how addicted I would become to the process of getting inked. & boy was he right!

My second tattoo was done on my left foot. Most definitely the most painful one & the most painful experience of my life. It took about two hours & it was done by Kenny at Lone Wolf in Franklin, TN. He designed the whole thing by hand. I teared up a little when I saw his sketch. This tattoo is my most meaningful one for it is a tribute to my beautiful parents & family. The date of their wedding is written on a banner with their wedding rings resting above it. I got the tattoo on my mother's 50th birthday. My parents cried when they saw it. Success.

Tattoo #3 and #4 were done by John Kline at Lone Wolf again. He and I had a deep connection so I was glad that he could do both. #3 was my Audrey Kawasaki piece, based on one of my favorite drawings by her. #4 was the ouroboros on my right wrist which represents my spiritual beliefs. Tattoos #3 and #4 are incredibly meaningful to me. They're not really something I choose to explain or even enjoy explaining. I think spirituality is a personal journey & it is completely acceptable to not share every aspect of it. They're both very personal tattoo & they help me to refocus every time I look at them.

A side note: I've gotten all but one tattoo completely on my own. No one came with me or visited me in the process. I like to keep the process as sacred as possible & I don't have any plans on ever allowing someone to come with me. I like to get in the zone & get to know my artist or contemplate why on earth I do this to myself (kidding!) ;)

Now onto the nitty gritty: My parents have always been very weary of tattoos. My mother was definitely more open & accepting to them than my father. He took some convincing. His fears have always been that I would have trouble finding a job or that I would regret them later in life. He has most certainly come around & although he will never understand my tattoos, he accepts them. My parents both love asking people about their tattoos now when they have a waiter or bartender who has tattoos. I think it's their way of understanding more, which I am extremely appreciative of. My friends have always been supportive. Surprisingly, only one or two people have tattoos in my close group of friends. However, Nashville is crawling with tattoo-junkies, which makes it entirely more acceptable to have them. My hometown, Franklin, is still coming around. I receive the most stares & criticism while here. This town is as white-bread & stuck up as it gets. Luckily, criticism is not something I deal with alot though. I assume it will get worst as I get more...but maybe not since tattoos are becoming more prominent in almost every town.

I most definitely plan on getting more and hope to have a full half sleeve on my right arm one day. I also have a piece planned for my back (between my shoulder blades). All in time. Tattoos are both expensive & the pain is stressful, so I'm in no hurry! :)

what I wore

2011-03-07T13:33:00.001-08:00

Happy Monday! :)

What I Wore: to work, peruse Target & grab a latte (vanilla soy. mmm!).

dress - ann taylor loft; sweater - banana republic; necklace - vintage; belt - target; boots - steve madden

Mondays are one of my favorite days. I usually sleep late, spend an hour working out & then head into work around 5pm. It's a verrry relaxing way to start the week. I gather I could wake up early & be a little more productive, but where's the fun in that?

Notice my dark hair is finally back? I feel like myself again. There's just something about dark hair & dark eyebrows that suits me. No way around it, I guess!

& p.s. It's a whopping 50 degrees out. Where did spring go?

Artist Spotlight : Adele

2011-03-06T08:00:00.000-08:00

I'll be honest, when I first heard that Adele was putting out a new album, I didn't exactly jump for joy. Don't get me wrong, this girl's voice is a force to be reckoned with, but I played her last album to death. So much so that I have difficulty listening to it now. I purchased her new album, 21, this past weekend and HOLY CRAP. My jaw was on the floor, heart in the pit of my stomach, I sort of felt like crying. This album is intensely emotional. It speaks alot about a failed relationship; what could have been - something I think everyone can relate to in one way or another. But let's be honest, this girl could be singing about vegetables & it would still be beautiful. Just like her face.

You can watch the video of her latest single here.

I encourage everyone to give her new album a listen. :)

Things I Love Thursday!

2011-03-03T18:01:00.001-08:00

Happy Thursday! Here's what I'm loving this week...

The A-MAZING Marvel Comics line of jewelry that Noir put out. A Gotham City ring!? HOLY SHEET! :)

Another ring...but this was too pretty to pass. Alexander McQueen, of course.

These cutie iphone cases by Locher's Paris. Reminds me of something Miss Kaelahbee would use.

The great styling going on at Ann Taylor LOFT - I'll be doing a little shopping there tomorrow. :)

This homemade oreo recipe.

Love love looooving this band, Two Door Cinema Club. Perfect music for Spring!

What are you loving this week?

what I wore

2011-03-02T13:51:00.000-08:00

What I Wore: to get coffee, bump into good friends, & have dinner with my bestie.

fedora & blouse - francescas; scarf - urban outfitters (it's got wolves printed on it!); jeans - forever 21; shoes - city flats from gap

Today is my day off. Say it with me people, I HAVE A DAY OFF! Days off come few & far between in my life. Working retail is one of those jobs, that even if you only work a five or six hour shift, you feel like you've just run a marathon. Retail is exhausting on your mind, body, & spirit because let's face it...people are mean! Of course, your average shopper is rather kind & understanding. They like to get in, peruse your shop for a quick minute, & purchase whatever it is they came in for. But when you live in a place like Franklin, TN - the shoppers can be a bit unkind. There's some sort of entitlement floating around in the air here & everybody seems entitled to just about everything. However, I love my job & I'm just crossing my fingers that I can make a living doing what I love for forever & ever. Amen.

So, like I was saying. I have the day off. It's a cool 63 degrees outside & I'm enjoying an iced latte at starbucks while I catch up on blog reading. Tonight I'm having dinner with bff Kayla & very much looking forward to it.

Hope you're enjoying your Wednesday! :)

what I wore

2011-03-01T15:15:00.001-08:00

What I Wore : to work!

blouse - francesca's ; skirt - urban outfitters ; tights - express (best tights ever) ; shoes - city flats by gap

I always see March 1st as the first day of Spring, even though I know good & well that it isn't. But doesn't that grass look green!? Today I had a quick four hour shift at Francesca's. We were supposed to have a visit from our regional manager at that time but of course she showed right after I left. You'll have to excuse my awful hair color at the moment. It sort of looks green in natural light, & my roots always appear grey since I'm a natural blonde. I'm hopefully getting it colored in the next week though. Phew!

I'm always a bit worried about stuffing this blouse into a cotton skirt. All that added fabric can make a girl look a bit bulky around the hips. Oh well though! I try not to concern myself with that age old question, "Does this make me look fat?" I wear what makes me feel comfortable and if someone doesn't like it, then tough! ;)

Tonight I'm having dinner with my lovely parents then heading up to Nashville to have drinks with a girlfriend. Excited for some no, nonsense girl time. :)

Fitness is in the mind, not the legs.

2011-02-28T13:52:00.001-08:00

Being active, eating right, & keeping fit has become increasingly more important for me over the years. I think I realized the importance of both food & fitness when I was a vegetarian for 90 days last year. I completely immersed myself in literature supporting healthy lifestyles. I threw myself into The Kind Diet & read every book that Michael Polland has written. Although I decided that being a vegetarian wasn't right for me, it helped me tweak alot of details in my own diet & has really helped me become more aware of what goes into the food that I eat.

Although my dedication to working out has most certainly faltered at times, I've felt really encouraged these past two years to stay active. More recently, I have found myself working out every single morning. Whether it be a quick two mile job around the neighborhood, a 30-minute yoga session, or a full 2-hour sweat in the gym. I'm learning that you have to take it one day at a time & just because you don't do well in your work-out one day, doesn't mean that tomorrow you won't have the stamina of a fighter. It's all about balance.

I've been feeling really great lately after my workouts. My body is certainly changing & I've even dropped a few pounds (bonus!). I've also been enjoying making fun playlists for the gym. Here's a sample of what's been on a few of my recent playlists. I love running to all of these tracks.

If you have any good gym music to share, please leave a comment! I'm always looking for new songs.

sunday, bloody sunday

2011-02-27T22:13:00.000-08:00

It's amazing how quickly a week comes & goes. I sit in my bed every Sunday night pondering where on earth the time went & how I managed to be so unproductive?!

This past weekend was quiet one, yet a thrilling one (in my head). I spent a few hours at a wine event on Friday night & a few hours with girlfriends tonight at a little get together for the Oscars (where we massacred those poor, innocent cupcakes). Other than that, my time was spent at home, by myself, in my own head. Oh yes, & at work with hundreds of happy shoppers...how could I forget?!

With alone time comes time to think, time to steady the pace, quiet the mind, & prioritize. I woke up extra early this morning to enjoy a quick breakfast with my parents, then I headed out for a jog in the neighborhood. Even though I live in a neighborhood, I'm able to feel a bit closer to nature since we're out here in the country. I loved looking up at the tree tops & seeing all the birds perched before the storm came rolling through. There's still alot of open field here that I like to run too. I stand on the edge as if not to fall in & be overtaken by the tall grass. I like watching the wind - pondering where my life is at this moment & where it might be heading in the near future.

I can't say I answered too many of life's questions on that run this morning, but I decided that I enjoy mornings & I need to wake up & give myself time to enjoy them a little more. Being productive is not my strongest suit but I'm really hoping to change that this year. I have alot of things I want to accomplish (including growing this little ol' blog!). I just need to actually be awake for more hours of the day so I can be more proactive with my goals.

I'm welcoming Spring with wide open arms this year.

oh, & p.s.

here's what the cupcakes looked like before...

poor guys.

Lately...

2011-02-23T13:50:00.000-08:00

(via weheartit)

My apologies for not updating properly lately. I've just had alot going on, I guess!

Lately...
- I've been rallying for a relocation to Texas. That's right. I'm going to be working my butt off these next few months in hopes of securing a position in Houston, TX with Francesca's. I've inquired about a buying position & am keeping my fingers tightly crossed.
- I've been fighting off a lovely sinus infection. Atleast that's what it feels like. I slept a whopping 14 hours last night!
- I've been feeling completely unmotivated when it comes to dressing up or doing my hair. Who am I?! Getting dressed is usually my most favorite part of the day. However, I did get some new Ray Bans glasses. Hopefully I'll find time/energy to show them off this weekend on the blog because I really like them!
- I've realized that you can't always control your feelings, thoughts, or emotions. Everything happens for a reason & I'm learning more & more how to take everything in strides. One day at a time. No need to go rushing into my future. I'm trying my best to enjoy the present a little more. :)

What have you been up to lately?

Artist Spotlight: Peter Callesen

2011-02-18T20:48:00.001-08:00

I was introduced to artist Peter Callesen's work tonight by one of my besties, Shanda. He is a paper sculptor of sorts & I have always found paper to be one of the most interesting mediums. It seems like something so simple. Paper is flat, 2d, & fairly boring. However, artists like Peter Callesen see paper in an entirely different light. I am so amazed.

You can see more of his work here.

Through the Looking Glass (of an iphone).

2011-02-12T23:09:00.001-08:00

bff shad & I

I've been a bit of an anti-social butterfly here lately. Keeping to myself for the most part & not doing alot more than working. This weekend most definitely made up for that though! Although I did work alot, I managed to have some pretty good nights with my friends.

Friday night was spent celebrating my dear friend, Jesse's 23rd birthday party. We danced for what seemed like hours. I think I probably sweated enough to lose a few pounds. Cute, eh? Tonight was spent with my besties seeing Jesse's band play, The Gills. These boys just moved up here from Florida & are incredibly talented. I think they're going to do really well here. I took a video of them playing one of their originals which you can see here.

Tomorrow is Valentine's Day celebrations with my girlfriends. We'll be enjoying a lovely dinner at J. Alexanders, then it's off to JUSTIN BIEBER'S NEVER SAY NEVER! I imagine we'll be the oldest gals in the theatre. But who can resist that pint sized popstar!? Not me. No way.

I'll be back Monday.

what I wore

2011-02-09T18:20:00.000-08:00

What I Wore : to secret shop, run errands, & get stuck in the snow for 2 hours.

hat & scarf - Francesca's; blouse - Old Navy; cardigan - Target; jeans - F21; boots - Steve Madden

I'll have you know, I had every intention of taking photos outside today in the pretty winter daylight. I had my tripod set-up & my car heat blasting. Alas, my camera battery was dead. WTH!? So I charged that sucker & was forced to take photos inside when I returned...& the sun was down. Damn. So, pardon the terrible lighting & quality of these.

I had an extremely productive day which included a morning yoga session, cleaning house, & running a few errands. My friend Emily had me secret shop her store. If you work retail, you know what a pain it is when you find out you've been secret shopped. I've never secret shopped myself though, so it was pretty fun! I felt like a spy.

I then found myself stuck in the middle of a snow blizzard. It came down FAST. It took me two hours to go roughly 15 miles. At one point, my jeep spun out of control & ran right into a median. I felt absolutely hopeless & leaned my head against the steering wheel, trying not to cry. My parents are out of town & all my friends drive 2-wheel drive cars. Who would help me!? Luckily, I heard a knock on my window a few moments later & a kind gentleman helped back my car out & ease it back on the road. Minimal car damage & I am indeed, A-OHKAY! However, I witnessed an SUV tumble into a ditch right outside my neighborhood. My fingers are crossed for everyone who found themselves in some sort of accident tonight.

I came home & treated myself to a large batch of homestyle mac & cheese.

Here's to hoping tomorrow is a breeze.